Rickroll wrote:around the beginning of the summer, i came to this site and then i started a "diet".
well actually it wasn't much of a diet at all, and I also stopped that half the way of the summer, around july 4 i had gone from 205 pounds to 189 pounds, and that was basically JUST for completely cutting Soda and sweets out of my life.
after that i pretty much stopped doing the diet, and i did have some sweets, like in my birthday dinner. after my birthday, on a monday, I wanted to really start a new diet, i looked into just doing a low calorie diet. So I started the diet.
Now I am 180 pounds, and i started this new diet 3 weeks ago. losing 3 pounds per week. I wasn't exercising a lot either.
I know maybe low calorie/low fat diets aren't the best, but I am losing weight with it.
Use the menshealth.com forums. You can find a lot of free info there. The Abs diet is one of the better ones out there. You basically end up combining healthy eating, moderate portions and exercise. The amount of exercise is up to you. It all comes down to how much you want to do of course. Cutting out soda, white bread, etc from your diet will give you a good baseline, but you'll plateau pretty quickly, and eventually have to exercise and diet a little more strictly.
PS, I just got back from a bachelor party, so pls excuse any spelling mishaps., etc.
But yeah. Personally, I peaked at 230, after a lot of beer nights in college, and mostly a lot of wow raiding for 2 years. I'm 180 now, and I haven't really been super hardcore. Get some cardio, do some yoga, do some lifting. Tonight, I went out with some friends before going out to the bar, and I ate whatever the fuck I wanted. You have to enjoy life, and not feel too stressed to eat a certain amount/quality for every meal in your life. You need to enjoylife too :D
Overall, the best for my health and weight have been yoga and better eating. The cardio is good, but I've been able to do more cardio for longer after doing yoga for a month or so, and the lifting is just added fat burning.
Anything more than 4 lbs a week is probably unhealthy, so just realize that it's going to be slow but steady gains.